Gaslighting: A Step-by-Step Recovery Guide

An award-winning, evidence-based guide to recovering from gaslighting. 

 

Gaslighting is a targeted form of manipulation, deception, and control that makes you doubt your own perceptions and memories. Whether you’ve experienced gaslighting or emotional abuse from someone in your life—or you think you might have—Gaslighting gives you the tools to recognize it and the steps to begin healing.


  • The truth about gaslighting
  • Proven techniques
  • Realistic examples
  • Written exercises

Reclaim your independence after gaslighting with this guide to understanding how it works and taking steps toward breaking free. Available in English, Mandarin, Hungarian, Russian, Korean, and Turkish!

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Chanticleer International Book Awards

Winner, Best in Category – Mind & Spirit (2023)​

Independent Publisher Book Awards

Silver, Best First Book – Non-Fiction (2023)

Next Generation Indie Book Awards

Finalist, Relationships / Non-Fiction (2023)

Best Book Awards

Winner, Self-Help: Relationships (2022)

Readers’ Favorite

5 Star Rating (2023)

American Writing Awards

Finalist (2022)

Readers’ Favorite Book Award

Silver, Non-Fiction – Self-Help (2023)

International Book Awards

Winner, Self-Help: Relationships (2023)

2023 Pyx Global International Book Awards

Winner, Mental Health (2023)

Chanticleer International Book Awards

Winner, Best in Category – Mind & Spirit (2023)​

Best Book Awards

Winner, Self-Help: Relationships (2022)

Readers’ Favorite Book Award

Silver, Non-Fiction – Self-Help (2023)

Independent Publisher Book Awards

Silver, Best First Book – Non-Fiction (2023)

Readers’ Favorite

5 Star Rating (2023)

International Book Awards

Winner, Self-Help: Relationships (2023)

Next Generation Indie Book Awards

Finalist, Relationships / Non-Fiction (2023)

American Writing Awards

Finalist (2022)

2023 Pyx Global International Book Awards

Winner, Mental Health (2023)

“Gaslighting is a must-read ... Kudos to Deborah Vinall for her most valuable, groundbreaking work with gaslighting.”

David Grand, PhD Developer of Brainspotting

“Deborah Vinall's Gaslighting recovery guide is AMAZING! It is clear, easy to follow, and beautiful. She cuts through the crazy-making irrationality of gaslighting with a gift of understanding and empathy.”

Brad Jersak, PhD Author of Can You Hear Me

“With the insight of a seasoned therapist and the presence of an experienced yogi, Dr. Vinall provides both foundational information and clear exercises for those who wish to engage in a self-paced exploration of their own experiences.”

Debra Mashek, PhD Coauthor of Handbook of Closeness and Intimacy and The Science of Relationships

"[Gaslighting] is a must-read for anyone struggling with setting healthy boundaries or who is in an unhealthy relationship. Dr. Vinall provides extremely useful and practical worksheets within the book that will empower you toward positive change.”

Nicole Arkadie, EdD, LCSW Founder of Arkadie Counseling & Wellness Center and author of Caged No More

“Gaslighting provides a unique approach to identifying, working through, and healing from any type of relationship that has caused emotional damage. You won’t regret your purchase.”

Jessica Guerrero, DSW, LCSW Founder of Brazos Abiertos

Latest Release

Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens

Help teens manage their trauma and move forward.

 

We are greater than the trauma and pain we may experience in our life. This workbook illuminates how healing is possible, explores what trauma is, and shows teens how they can embrace their emotions while developing resiliency.

 

What sets this trauma workbook apart:

  • Overview of trauma
  • Relatable scenarios
  • Strategies for healing

Help teens find a renewed sense of hope as they learn how to work through their trauma and improve their mental health.

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Chanticleer International Book Awards

Winner, Best in Category – I & I (2023)​

Best Book Awards

Winner, Young Adult: Nonfiction (2022)

Independent Publisher Book Awards

Silver, Juvenile / Young Adult Non-Fiction (2023)

Next Generation Indie Book Awards

Finalist, Children’s / Juvenile Non-fiction (2023)

International Book Awards

Finalist, Young Adult: Nonfiction (2023)

“Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens is exactly what the world needs right now: a compassionate, frank, succinct, and beautifully empowering workbook for our traumatized teens. Chock full of critical information, helpful assessments, and organized checklists, alongside healing strategies and resiliency practices: this is the book I wish I'd had as a brand new therapist, and I'm incredibly grateful that it's available now. I'll be recommending this in every space I can.”

Kay Bruner, MA, LPC Author of As Soon As I Fell and Debunking the Myths of Forgive and Forget

“Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens is an essential book for every teen who is beginning the personal journey to heal from trauma. This book provides a practical framework for exploring the nature and effects of trauma and the steps for moving forward in the healing journey. A valuable resource.”

Laura Steele, PsyD Dean, College of Psychology and Counseling, Hope International University

“Dr. Vinall combines her extensive expertise in our community's most sound trauma recovery therapies in this masterful, effective workbook that speaks to today's savvy adolescent. ‘Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens’ identifies and demystifies the essentials of smart, evidenced based, effective trauma recovery and resiliency building in a developmentally informed, comprehensive workbook, at a time when youth are wanting to hear from credible and empowering mental health professionals.”

Suzanne Mata, PsyD Founder of SUMA Trauma Center

“[Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens] is not only an informative and evidence based resource but also has exercises, tools and strategies to help teens who have had complex and deep trauma. It is an all-in-one for the teens that helps to accelerate and ground clinical treatment of trauma with teens. I 100% recommend for any clinician working with teens who have experienced trauma.”

Tonya Nowakowski, LCSW Director of Victor Community Support Services, Los Angeles County

Deborah Vinall explains in a smooth, safe way what trauma can do to adolescents. Unafraid to face the truth, [Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens] opens ways of integration for teens. As we say in Brainspotting, "Where you look affects how you feel," and she encourages focus on the past in a way that facilitates release from it and guides toward constructing a resilient future! Her book is worth reading for any teenager to understand trauma reactions and to find out about possible ways of changing post traumatic states. It is also highly valuable for all adults who are interested in this topic!”

Dr. Monika Baumann, PhD Author of Brainspotting with Children and Adolescents; Brainspotting International Senior Trainer for Austria and Paraguay; University of Vienna Institute for Family Therapy

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